Can envy and jealousy help gossip woman to learn?

Women intend to envy and jealous other women or any creature is better than them. Business people using this power of jealousy to sell product, politician using this power of jealousy to get vote from women. It seems women are very easy to be used and consumed simply just using their power of jealousy and enviousness.

People without attractive appearance will be easily used or attempted by devil of using jealousy to any other people around that has good looking face or body figure or good family or loving parents or successful anythings......any elements can become a hatred reason for inferior feeling to be used for destroy and hate. It reflecting to rudeness, offensive attitudes, form a team to play controlling game.....

Is a person has anything better than you that can only drive you to jealous them? Or there can be another thoughts of learning from them?

I sometimes do not want to finish reading a good book, because worry I am going to be lonely again if I finished reading a such fine brain and good quality writing. This loneliness and worry can be applied be close to a fine quality of human, which is rarely and difficult to be close to or being around in real life.

A conversation between my sixteen year old daughter and I is like this:

*You better not to became that kind reckless young women talking without thinking to offend a old woman like your mother to piss you off.

+It is young women has the attractive element in this world, people buy whatever they sell.

*Whatever human without thoughtfulness deserve to be eliminated by social activity and hated by people around them.

+As long as the young woman perform good work, and the reason you said this is because you didn't see the other side of the young woman's work to us.

*A good defence of argument. It will increase my further observation to form a balanced opinion which will need to be more well rounded for any further evaluation about a person's quality.

Presumption of the further observation is pride is not easy to go away. Young age lack of life experience to be well rounded and thoughtfulness in thinking of different angle of life and people from different class of a society, and shortage of life experiences cause the less desire of sympathy.

I used to annoy by American Born Chinese young people who lack of politeness to greet with friends of their Chinese parent in social events; and then I seek method to train my own daughter. I want her to become different from this stereotyping of ABC, who always like to pretending cool and being disrespect to their Chinese parent.

Criticize my own daughter and argue with her has proved she has became more sensitive about manner issue and the differences among Chinese and Americans. Gladly to see more and more female Chinese Americans has sensed the cultural communication problem as I would appreciated a Chinese American woman who are more affluent in speaking of English to work on appeal on the issue of Cantonese smoked duck display for sale at market place with city council of San Francisco, rather than most of American born Chinese just simply thinking they are better because they can speak English as their first language than other Chinese people live in the United States. It simply are foolish and childish pride and thinking.

Difficulty of surviving is the real issue of sympathy in human society. Suppressing others by simply let your envy and jealousy go wild is a shortcut to aim your goal and have everybody hate you.